Ok guys... I've been M.I.A for a little while but I found a new blog challenge list that I LOVE! So... I'm going to attempt this once again. I can assure you that it won't be a daily thing. I'm a single mother... Who just went back to school via online classes (shoot me now, please!) Anyhoo, I will try to stay as updated as possible but I definitely want to finish this one.
Ok, Day 1: Five ways to win your heart
Hmmm, not sure if I should give away all the secrets, but... Oh well. FYI: I would never ask for something that I'm not willing to give in return.
1. BE A GODLY MAN... <~~~ this is the key to any great friendship/relationship so, if you don't have God in your life... It won't work with me or anyone else for that matter. I am just know realizing how important it is to have someone who is on the same page spiritually. Had I really understood this before, I would have saved myself a lot of headaches.
2. BE GENUINE!!!!! Please don't put on facades or pretend to be someone you're not. Don't sell the real you short by trying to be the man you THINK I want. I'm older/wiser & while I do APPRECIATE the finer things in life, I live for the simple everyday things.
3. BE INTELLIGENT!!! <~~~ nothing is more attractive to me than a man that challenges me!!! I need someone that I can talk to about more than tv shows & sports (although I AM a huge Yankees & Cowboys fan!)
4. BE ASSERTIVE!! Anyone that knows me, knows that I am a very headstrong, opinionated woman. I don't bite my tongue or hold back my feelings & I don't expect it in return. I have yet to find someone that can put me in my place w/o trying to control me & the same time. Still looking....
5. BE PATIENT. I am a single mother. Therefore, I'm not just picking someone good enough for me, but someone that I trust around my child. It's a process, so patience is a necessity.
~Jay
